Shirley Jones, the beloved actress known for her iconic roles in “April Love” and “Carousel,” is celebrating her 89th birthday today! Throughout her life, Shirley has experienced the highs and lows of love and marriage, but what truly brings her joy is the legacy she has built with her family. As a proud mother of three sons and a doting grandmother to 13 grandchildren, Shirley can confidently say that her greatest achievement lies in raising outstanding citizens.
Shirley’s journey to find lasting love was not without its obstacles. She first met her future husband, Jack Cassidy, while working on the State Department European tour of the musical “Oklahoma!” in 1955. At that time, Shirley was just 21 years old and captivated by Jack’s striking good looks and charismatic personality.
Despite the undeniable chemistry between them, their love was forbidden. Jack was still legally married to his wife Evelyn Ward, a talented dancer and actress. Rumors circulated that their marriage was unhappy, with Jack’s wandering eye being the cause of their troubles. Although Shirley was aware of these rumors, she held onto Jack’s promises and hoped for a genuine and lasting love.
Their budding romance took them to Paris, where they were set to perform in “Oklahoma!” Every night, as they rehearsed for the play, the intense connection between them grew stronger, igniting a passionate fire. It was during their time in Paris that Jack made a bold declaration: he would marry Shirley, even though he was still legally bound to his wife.
The night after their successful performance, Jack and Shirley consummated their love in a Roman hotel. For Shirley, it was a significant moment as she had saved herself for the right person. Their love was undeniable, and Shirley willingly paid the bill for their stay, a testament to her unwavering affection.
After their time in Paris, Shirley received an opportunity to star in the movie “Carousel,” and she left for Boothbay Harbor, Maine, to shoot the film. Despite the distance, Jack called her every day, expressing his undying love. He finally fulfilled his promise when he divorced his wife, officially making Shirley his bride on August 6, 1956.
Their journey as a couple faced its first major test when Shirley became pregnant. Her agent suggested an abortion, fearing the impact it might have on her career. Shirley complied, but it left her emotionally fragile. Determined to start a family, she vowed to conceive again. In the midst of this, Shirley had to navigate her relationship with Jack’s son from his previous marriage, David.
David struggled with accepting Shirley as his stepmother, fueled by his mother’s attempts to paint her in a negative light. Despite the challenges, Shirley’s patience and love eventually won David over, and he became a warm and positive presence in her life, both on and off-screen. Their bond grew stronger over the years, with David describing Shirley as a role model and a genuinely good human being.
Despite their deep connection, Shirley and Jack faced marital difficulties, leading to their divorce in 1975. Shirley always believed that the unexpected success of “The Partridge Family,” in which they starred together, played a role in their separation. However, she admitted that she wouldn’t have divorced Jack had he not wanted it.
Tragically, Jack’s life came to a sudden end on December 11, 1976, when a house fire claimed his life. Shirley was devastated by the loss, and even in her subsequent marriage to Marty Ingels, she knew that Jack will always hold a special place in her heart.
Throughout her life, Shirley has embraced the role of a loving mother to her three sons, Shaun, Patrick, and Ryan. Each of them has followed in their parents’ footsteps and pursued a career in the entertainment industry. Apart from her children, Shirley cherishes her role as a doting grandmother to her 13 grandchildren. For Shirley, family always comes first.
As Shirley celebrates her 89th birthday, she reflects on a life well-lived and the joy that her family brings her. It is a testament to her love, resilience, and unwavering dedication to those she holds dear. Shirley Jones is not just a talented actress; she is a woman who has navigated the complexities of love, triumphed over challenges, and built a legacy that will last for generations to come. Happy birthday, Shirley!
