Sidney Poitier, a legendary figure in Hollywood, experienced two significant marriages in his lifetime, each shaping his journey in its own way. His first marriage lasted over a decade, while his second with Joanna Shimkus spanned 45 years, enduring until his passing. This story is about his captivating journey of love and resilience.

Sidney’s second wife, Joanna Shimkus, once remarked that their union was “destined”. Theirs was a unique and loving interracial marriage that not only brought them together but also graced them with two beautiful daughters. Sidney and Joanna’s love story wasn’t just about romance but about enduring commitment.

Before this enduring partnership, Sidney had lived through another significant chapter in his life. His first marriage to Juanita Hardy began during a period when he was seeking emotional fulfillment. A time filled with nights out and material indulgence, he met Juanita when he needed stability.

She became his anchor, despite his initial doubts about her ability to provide stability because of her beauty and glamorous lifestyle. They met in the early 1950s and a humorous comment from Sidney led to their first date. His bold declaration, “I’ll never marry a girl like you!” predicted the opposite of what followed. One month into dating, he already envisioned her as his future wife.

Juanita Hardy and Sidney married in 1950, and shortly after, their family began to grow. Their first daughter, Beverly, was born in 1952, during a time when Sidney worked hard in both acting and a barbecue restaurant to make ends meet. Despite their financial struggles, the family continued to grow with the arrival of daughters Pamela and Sherri, and later Gina. Sadly, Gina passed away, leaving a mark of sorrow within their family.

During these times, Sidney’s career was starting to flourish. By 1959, he had received his first Oscar nomination for “The Defiant Ones” and starred in the successful Broadway play “A Raisin in the Sun”. Hollywood was beginning to recognize his enormous talent.

The movie “Porgy and Bess” was another significant point in his life where he began to connect deeply with co-star Diahann Carroll. This connection led to a deep and complex romance that lasted almost a decade.

Despite his growing success, Sidney’s marriage to Juanita faced struggles. The demands of fame and personal desires created a drift between them. His candid confession about being in love with Diahann Carroll, despite both being married to others, revealed the complexity of his personal life.

By 1964, Sidney made history by becoming the first Black actor to win an Oscar in a leading role, for “Lilies of the Field”. This achievement solidified his place in Hollywood history but added pressure to his personal life.

Ultimately, his marriage to Juanita ended in 1965, and a few years later, in 1968, Sidney met Joanna Shimkus. On set filming “The Lost Man”, he found a new partner who would become his wife.

Their bond was immediate and deep, leading them to build a life and a family together. They welcomed Anika in 1972 and their daughter Sidney in 1973. By 1976, their marriage was sealed, and their life together was marked by warmth, respect, and understanding.

Joanna described Sidney as being honest and kind, qualities that made him different in her eyes. Their marriage stood out not just for its longevity but for its depth of feeling.

Interviewed in a 1998 documentary, Joanna reflected on their life together, sharing how her upbringing in Canada without racial prejudice made their interracial marriage feel natural and effortless, challenging societal norms.

She remembered Sidney as being more than just a “Black man” but as an exceptional human being she deeply loved. In a world where race often defines relationships, Joanna’s view was refreshing and spoke volumes about their true connection.

In their long life together, they shared mutual values and appreciation. Sidney, always described as a man of integrity and kindness, influenced not just his family but everyone who knew him.

Their relationship thrived on love and mutual respect, allowing Sidney to maintain a strong sense of family dedication. He was a firm father who instilled values of discipline and respect, coupled with deep pride in the goodness he saw in his children.

After Sidney’s passing, Joanna compiled his speeches into a book, honoring his passion and wisdom. This touching gesture showcased their shared values and Sidney’s commitment to education and growth, especially evident in the legacy he left for his daughters.

His calm demeanor and endless curiosity were cherished by Joanna throughout their years. These traits, along with his emphasis on family and education, left a mark that continues to shine brightly, reminding us of their unique love story — one that was truly “destined” to be.