I was in my room, all dressed up for what I thought would be the biggest day of my life, when my sister rushed in and said, “I hope you’ll forgive me one day!” Then slipped something into my hand. I opened my palm and nearly passed out. It was a tiny flash drive. Nothing fancyโjust one of those plain plastic ones you get at office supply stores. But it was what was on it that changed everything.
โWatch it now,โ she whispered, breathless, mascara smudged under her eyes like sheโd been crying for hours. โYou need to see it before you say โI do.โโ
Then she bolted.
I stood there frozen, layers of ivory lace wrapped tight around my ribs, trying to stay upright in my heels. Makeup done, curls pinned, guests already arriving downstairs. And now, this.
I should’ve yelled after her. Thrown the flash drive across the room. But my hands trembled as I sat down at my vanity, slid it into my laptop, and hit play.
It was a video. About three minutes long. Blurry at first. Then it focused, and there he wasโNaveen. My fiancรฉ. My perfect, charming, smooth-talking Naveen. Sitting on a couch. But not alone.
A girl was beside him. Curled up very close. Her name was Lara. I’d met her onceโbrieflyโat his office. She was just โa friend from marketing,โ heโd said.
The video had no timestamp. But it looked recent. The room they were in had the same throw pillow I helped him pick out two months ago. The shirt he wore? One Iโd ironed for him last week.
And then they kissed.
Not a peck. Not a goodbye. A long, familiar kissโthe kind that speaks of history. Of comfort. Of secrets.
My stomach flipped. My hands went cold. I paused the video halfway through and stared at my reflection in the mirror. The woman staring back looked like me, but also like a ghost. My lipstick looked ridiculous now. Too bright. Too happy.
I couldnโt breathe.
Then came the knock on the door.
โTen minutes, Noor!โ my mom called from the hallway.
I shut the laptop, yanked the flash drive out, and just sat there. Ten minutes. Ten minutes to decide whether to walk down the aisle and pretend none of this happenedโฆ or to light the whole day on fire.
Growing up, my sister Nadiya and I were never the type to steal each otherโs clothes or fight over crushes. We were too different for that. I was the planner. The achiever. She was the creative, the wanderer, always flitting from idea to idea, relationship to relationship.
But we were close. Not the mushy type, but solid. We had inside jokes. Rituals. Midnight drives when things got hard. I was the one who picked her up when she crashed her first car. She was the one who sat with me in silence when our dad had his first heart attack.
So for her to run in like that, looking like sheโd seen a ghost and begging for forgivenessโI knew this wasnโt petty drama. It was real. It was huge.
But why now?
Why not before the invites went out? Before the dress fittings? Before our mom took out half her retirement to make this wedding sparkle?
My brain started spinning.
Maybe it was a mistake. Maybe the video was old. Maybe she just thought it was recent. Maybeโ
I shook my head. No. I knew what I saw.
The way his hand slid under Laraโs hair. The soft, casual way she laughed into his shoulder. That wasnโt some one-night mistake. That was love. Or at least, comfort. Betrayal, either way.
The knock came again. This time louder.
โNoor, baby, we really have to go!โ
I didnโt respond.
Then I did something I never thought I would on my wedding dayโI locked the door. Then pulled out my phone.
I scrolled through my messages. Found one from Naveen from three days ago. Heโd sent a voice note, sweet and doting, about how he couldnโt wait to see me walk toward him. I replied with just three words:
โWe need to talk.โ
Then I grabbed the flash drive, my shoes, and a long coat to cover my dress. I opened the side window in the dressing roomโthank God for old bungalows with low windowsโand climbed out.
Yes. I literally ran from my wedding.
My phone rang ten times before I picked up. Naveen.
I answered in the backseat of a rickety auto-rickshaw, still in full bridal makeup, speeding through streets I barely registered.
โWhere are you?โ he shouted. โEveryoneโs waiting! Your motherโs cryingโโ
โDonโt,โ I said. โDonโt pretend. I saw the video.โ
Silence.
โI donโt know what youโre talking about,โ he said finally, voice low, cautious.
โDonโt insult me, Naveen. Itโs Lara. I saw you two. Recently. You kissed her in your apartment. Same couch. Same throw pillow. You were wearing the blue striped shirt.โ
More silence. Then the line cut.
I didnโt call back. I didnโt have to.
Ten minutes later, Nadiya messaged me: โCome to Maaji Cafรฉ. Iโll explain everything.โ
When I walked in, still in my wedding dress under my coat, Nadiya stood up so fast her chair screeched.
โIโm so sorry,โ she said, eyes red. โI shouldโve told you weeks ago.โ
I sat down. Stared at her.
โWhy didnโt you?โ
She looked down. Stirred her coffee.
โBecause I didnโt think youโd believe me. Not at first. You were so happy. Andโฆ I was scared.โ
โScared of what?โ
โThat youโd choose him over me.โ
The words hit me harder than I expected. I opened my mouth, then closed it. She continued.
โI saw them at a gallery opening. Holding hands. I followed them to his apartment. Waited outside for hours like some deranged PI. Thenโฆ I confronted her. She told me everything. Theyโve been on and off for years. Even while he was with you.โ
I stared at her. โWhy would she tell you that?โ
Nadiya swallowed. โBecause we used to be friends. Before she started seeing him.โ
Now that I didnโt expect.
โWhat?โ
โShe was my friend, Noor. We had art classes together. She never knew you were my sister until recently. When she put it together, she felt awful. But not enough to stop, apparently.โ
I leaned back. The whole room tilted.
โSo all this timeโฆ you knew?โ
โI was trying to get proof. The video was my final shot. I found her friend who had filmed it on Snapchat as a joke. Took forever to convince her to send it. I only got it this morning.โ
I wanted to scream. Or laugh. Or both.
Instead, I asked quietly, โSo what now?โ
Nadiya looked up. โYou do not marry him. Thatโs what.โ
I nodded. I already knew that.
The aftermath was a mess.
My mother cried for three days straight. Not because of Naveenโshe never liked him muchโbut because of the shame, the money spent, the guests sheโd have to call.
My father sat with me on the second night, handed me a glass of orange juice, and simply said, โBetter now than later, beti.โ That was it. And that was enough.
Naveen sent a long email a week later. No apology. Just explanations. He claimed Iโd “misunderstood the timing.” That Lara was โsomeone heโd been trying to end things with for good.โ That I โshould have confronted him directly instead of running.โ
I didnโt reply.
I was too busy flying to Manali with Nadiya for a last-minute โhoneymoonโ we decided to take anyway. Because screw the shame. And screw the wasted money on non-refundable tickets. We spent five days drinking spiced tea, journaling, watching horror movies in bed, and getting matching ankle tattoos. Mine said โTruth.โ Hers said โBrave.โ
It took me six months to feel normal again.
Not because I missed NaveenโI didnโtโbut because I kept blaming myself. For not seeing the signs. For trusting so blindly. For planning a whole future with someone who wasnโt even honest about his present.
But I learned something, too.
Sometimes people show you who they are long before they tell you. And sometimes, the people we overlookโthe ones who sit quietly in the wings, holding onto painful truthsโare the ones who actually love us the most.
Nadiya and I got closer after everything. We still bicker, of course. Still judge each otherโs music taste. But now, we talk more. Say the hard things earlier. We donโt let fear hold us back from honesty.
As for Naveen? Last I heard, he got engaged again. To someone else from his office.
I wish her well. Genuinely.
Because love without truth is just a performance. And nobody deserves to spend their life onstage, pretending.
So if you ever find yourself staring down a big momentโmarriage, a job, a dreamโand something feels off? Listen to that whisper. Ask the hard questions. And if someone gives you the truth, no matter how lateโฆ
Have the courage to hear it.
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