When Zeyna called me from the train station, crying and incoherent, I didn’t hesitate. “Of course you can stay here,” I told her, bouncing my son on one hip as I unlocked the front door. “For as long as you need.”

Six weeks ago, I meant that. I really did. After her toxic breakup with Tariq, she looked like a ghost version of herself—gaunt, bruised pride wrapped in oversized hoodies and silence. I remembered how she held me after Matteo left, no questions, no judgment. Family is family.

The first week was easy enough. She kept to herself, helped with the dishes, even made dinner a few nights. I caught glimpses of the old Zeyna—sharp, sarcastic, affectionate. But it didn’t last.

It started with a belt. A tan leather one with a gold buckle I’d picked up in Milan years ago. I’d been meaning to wear it with a fitted blazer for an office lunch, but when I went to look for it, it was gone. I assumed I misplaced it—motherhood had scrambled my memory worse than sleep deprivation ever could.

Then it was my vintage blouse. Then a silk scarf. Then the heels.

The heels were the final straw. Not because they were expensive (they were) or sentimental (they were that, too), but because of where I found them—tossed carelessly under the ottoman in my walk-in closet, scuffed, like someone had yanked them off in a hurry after a night out. I hadn’t touched those shoes in over a year. My stomach sank.

When I confronted her, Zeyna didn’t flinch. “You probably wore them and forgot,” she said with a laugh that didn’t reach her eyes. “Girl, you’ve been exhausted lately.” The tone was light, but something in it felt like condescension. Like a dare.

So I bought a camera. Just a tiny one, cleverly tucked into the bookshelf across from the closet door. I told myself it wasn’t petty, it was for clarity. For peace of mind.

Two days later, I had more clarity than I wanted.

There she was. Wearing my red silk dress—the one Matteo gave me the night before he left for Paris, the one I’d folded neatly and kept sealed in a protective bag. Zeyna stood in front of my mirror, swiping on my lip gloss, puckering her lips like a TikTok star, humming to herself. Then I watched her pause, look at herself, and whisper: “She won’t even know.”

I had to sit down.

I didn’t say anything that day. Or the next. Instead, I ordered a lock for my closet door and had it installed quietly one afternoon while she was out. The first evening she discovered it, she tried the handle, then rattled it harder.

“What the hell?” she said.

“It’s my closet,” I replied, not looking up from feeding my son. “I needed some boundaries.”

“Boundaries? Are you serious? You’re locking me out like I’m a thief.”

I didn’t answer. I didn’t need to.

She stormed into the guest room and slammed the door. The next morning, she barely looked at me. And the day after that, our mother called.

“She’s hurting,” my mother said. “You’re making her feel like a burden.”

“She is a burden,” I said before I could stop myself. “She’s stealing from me.”

“She said you’re paranoid. That you’re projecting your stress.”

“I have footage.”

That shut her up for a second. But I didn’t send the video. I don’t know why—I guess some part of me still hoped Zeyna would admit it, or at least leave on her own.

Then, three days ago, the camera recorded something new. Something worse.

It was 4:11 PM. My phone buzzed with an alert while I was at the grocery store. I clicked the notification absentmindedly, expecting maybe Zeyna sneaking in for another dress. Instead, I saw her standing at the closet with a man I didn’t recognize. Late twenties, scruffy beard, black hoodie. He knelt at the door with what looked like a lock-picking tool.

She was giggling.

“C’mon, it’s just in there,” she whispered.

I watched as the man picked the lock, slipped inside, and emerged carrying one of my designer handbags and a pair of sunglasses I hadn’t even remembered owning. Then they both tiptoed into my bedroom. They climbed onto my bed.

And they made out. On my bed.

I watched my sister straddle a man in the exact spot I had laid Matteo goodbye. I watched her laugh, cover herself with my sheets, kiss him like she owned the place.

I felt sick. Shaking. Furious. Heartbroken.

The next morning, I sent the video to my mom.

She called me sobbing. “I’m so sorry. I didn’t know. I—I thought…”

“I know,” I said. “But she can’t stay here anymore.”

That evening, I confronted Zeyna in the kitchen.

I played the footage without a word. She watched herself on screen, eyes widening, mouth twitching.

“That’s not what it looks like,” she started.

I laughed. “Seriously? He picked the lock. And you—on my bed, Zeyna?”

She stood up straight, crossed her arms. “Your room is bigger, and my bed is only for one person. You said I could stay. You said you wanted to help.”

“I said I wanted to support you, not let you replace me.”

Her jaw clenched. “So what now? You kicking me out?”

“Yes.”

“You’re choosing your closet over me?”

“I’m choosing myself. And my son.”

She didn’t argue. She packed her things—well, most of them—and walked out thirty minutes later, mumbling that she’d “never ask for anything again.”

I watched from the nursery window as she climbed into a car, the man from the video behind the wheel.

Two weeks have passed since then. My mother has stopped asking me to take her back. She visits more often now, always bringing something for the baby—maybe guilt wrapped in lullabies and soft toys. I’m okay with that. I’m okay, in general.

And my closet? It’s still locked. Not because I’m paranoid. Because it’s mine.

It took me too long to realize that love without respect is just manipulation in a prettier dress. My home is sacred. My peace is sacred. And from now on, I protect both.

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