When Isla first messaged me, I honestly thought it was just bitterness.
She was my boyfriend’s ex, after all.
Of course she had things to say.

Her DM just said:
“Be careful. He’s not who you think he is.”

I showed it to Dorian that night, half-laughing, expecting him to laugh too.
But he didn’t.
He got way too serious, way too fast.

“Block her,” he said.
“She’s crazy.”

So I did.
I blocked her.
I chose him.

And for a while, it felt like the right decision.
Until little cracks started showing.

Late nights he couldn’t explain.
Phone calls he took outside.
Weird charges on our joint credit card — hotels I didn’t recognize, dinners I wasn’t invited to.

Still, I didn’t want to believe it.
I didn’t want to be that girl.
The paranoid, jealous girlfriend.

But then last Friday, when Dorian said he had to “work late,” I decided to drive past his office.
Just once.
Just to make myself feel better.

Except he wasn’t at work.
His car was parked outside a restaurant two towns over.

And when I peeked inside the window…

He wasn’t alone.

He wasn’t with a woman, though.

He was sitting across from my best friend, Ayla.

And the worst part?

They were holding hands.

I stood there frozen, my breath catching in my throat like ice. The world seemed to tilt on its axis as I watched them lean closer, their heads bowed together as if sharing some deep secret. My stomach churned, and I felt sick—sicker than I’d ever felt before. Not because of betrayal alone but because of how blind I’d been.

A part of me wanted to storm into the restaurant, throw open the door, and demand answers. But another part—the smarter, quieter part—knew that would only make things worse. Instead, I backed away slowly, climbed back into my car, and drove home, my mind racing faster than the speedometer.

By the time Dorian walked through the front door later that night, I was sitting on the couch with a glass of wine in hand. I looked up at him coolly, pretending nothing was wrong. He greeted me with a casual kiss on the cheek, his cologne faintly masking what smelled suspiciously like perfume.

“How was work?” I asked, my voice steady despite the chaos swirling inside me.

“Long,” he replied, shrugging off his jacket. “You know how it is.”

I nodded, forcing a small smile. “Yeah. Long days can be tough.”

For the rest of the evening, I played the role of the supportive girlfriend. We ordered takeout, watched TV, and laughed at some dumb comedy special. On the surface, everything seemed normal—but beneath it, I was dying. Every word out of his mouth felt like a lie, every touch hollow. And yet, I still couldn’t confront him. Something held me back, maybe fear or pride or both.

The next morning, I woke up early and went for a long walk to clear my head. As I strolled along the quiet streets, my phone buzzed in my pocket. It was a message from Ayla: Hey, we need to talk.

My heart sank. Of all the people I trusted, Ayla was supposed to be untouchable. She’d been my rock since college, the one person who always had my back. How could she do this? Betray me like this?

Instead of responding, I called her. She picked up on the second ring, her voice hesitant. “Hey…”

“What the hell, Ayla?” I snapped, unable to keep the anger out of my tone. “I saw you last night. With Dorian. Care to explain?”

There was a long pause on the other end. Then, softly, she said, “It’s not what you think.”

“Oh really?” I shot back. “Because it looked pretty damn incriminating to me.”

“It’s complicated,” she began, her voice trembling slightly. “Dorian came to me a few weeks ago. He told me… he told me he thought you were pulling away from him. That you didn’t trust him anymore. He said he needed advice, someone to confide in.”

“So you’re saying this is all innocent?” I asked incredulously. “That holding hands over dinner is just ‘confiding’?”

“No!” she exclaimed quickly. “Okay, yes, okay—it started innocently enough. But… it turned into something more. I swear, I never meant for it to happen. And when I realized how wrong it was, I tried to stop it. That’s why I reached out to you today. To tell you everything.”

I stopped walking, leaning against a lamppost as the weight of her words hit me. “Why didn’t you tell me sooner?”

“I was scared,” she admitted. “Scared of losing you. Scared of ruining everything. I’m so sorry, Mia. Truly.”

We ended the call shortly after, neither of us knowing what to say next. I spent the rest of the day replaying the conversation in my head, trying to piece together how everything had gone so wrong. By the time Dorian got home, I’d made up my mind.

That night, I sat him down and told him I knew everything. At first, he denied it, his face twisting in indignation. “What are you talking about? You’re being ridiculous.”

But when I described exactly what I’d seen—and mentioned Ayla’s confession—he crumbled. “Okay, fine,” he muttered, running a hand through his hair. “You caught me. But it’s not your fault, Mia. I messed up. I let things spiral out of control.”

“Why?” I asked simply, tears streaming down my face. “Why would you do this to me?”

He hesitated, looking genuinely remorseful for the first time. “I don’t know. Maybe… maybe I was afraid. Afraid of losing you. Afraid of not being enough. So I lashed out. I made stupid choices. But I love you, Mia. More than anything.”

For a moment, I almost believed him. Almost forgave him. But then I remembered Isla’s warning—the one I’d ignored. And suddenly, everything clicked into place.

“You used me,” I said quietly. “From the beginning. You played me. Just like you played her.”

His eyes widened in shock. “What? No, that’s not true!”

“Yes, it is,” I countered firmly. “Think about it, Dorian. You pushed me to block Isla because you didn’t want me finding out the truth. You manipulated me into trusting you completely. And now look where we are.”

He opened his mouth to argue, but no words came out. Because deep down, he knew I was right.

In the weeks that followed, I cut ties with both Dorian and Ayla. It wasn’t easy—in fact, it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. But it was necessary. I needed space to heal, to rediscover who I was without them clouding my judgment.

During that time, I reconnected with Isla. Turns out, she’d tried reaching out to warn several of Dorian’s partners over the years, but most of them hadn’t listened either. Talking to her helped me see that none of this was my fault. Dorian was the problem, not me.

Eventually, I moved on. I threw myself into my career, picked up new hobbies, and even started dating again. It wasn’t perfect—I still carried scars from the experience—but I was happier than I’d been in a long time.

Then, one day, I ran into Ayla at a coffee shop. She looked nervous, fidgeting with her cup as she approached me. “Can we talk?” she asked tentatively.

Reluctantly, I agreed. Over lattes, she apologized again, this time more sincerely than ever. “I’ve been seeing a therapist,” she confessed. “Trying to figure out why I let myself get caught up in something so toxic. I miss you, Mia. More than you know.”

Part of me wanted to forgive her—to give her another chance. But I also knew that forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting. So instead, I smiled sadly and said, “Maybe someday. But not yet.”

As I walked away, I felt lighter somehow. Like letting go of the anger was freeing me to move forward.

Looking back now, I realize that life has a funny way of teaching lessons. Sometimes, they come wrapped in pain and heartbreak. Other times, they arrive quietly, like whispers in the wind. Either way, they shape us, mold us into stronger, wiser versions of ourselves.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: Trust your instincts. If something feels off, it probably is. Don’t ignore red flags—or warnings from people who care about you. And remember, you deserve love that lifts you up, not tears you down.

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