I was halfway through my pasta when my mother-in-law, Yvonne, dropped her bombshell.

“I’m redoing the house,” she announced, twirling a forkful of linguine like she hadn’t just declared war on her own sanity. “Everything. The kitchen, the floors, three bathrooms. Full makeover.”

I glanced at my husband, Adrian, who barely looked up from his plate. He knew better than to get in the middle of his mother’s grand ideas. So, I figured this was just another one of her schemes—like the time she wanted to start an organic soap business but lost interest after a week.

“Cool,” I said, meaning it in the most non-committal way possible. “Hope you find a good contractor.”

Yvonne sipped her wine and gave me that smile. The one that meant she was about to say something ridiculous.

“Actually, I was thinking you could handle it, dear.”

I stopped chewing. “Me?”

“You’re organized, practical. You have a good eye for design. And honestly, sitting at a desk all day for that miserable salary of yours? This would be much more meaningful.”

I felt my jaw tighten. The nerve.

Before I could respond, Adrian, my supposed partner, my supposed ride-or-die, chimed in.

“It’s not like your job saves lives,” he said, scooping up another bite like we were discussing the weather. “No one would notice if you took a break. Help my mom.”

I put my fork down. That was the moment. The exact second I decided they were about to learn just how much I did not care to be involved.

I excused myself early that night, claiming exhaustion, but my mind was already racing with plans. I wasn’t about to quit my job to be their unpaid project manager. No, no, no. They wanted a lesson? They were getting one.

The next morning, I put in a request for a week off—not for Yvonne’s renovation, but for myself.

Then, I set the wheels in motion.

The following week, I packed a suitcase, left a note on the kitchen counter (“Taking a well-earned break! Back in a week. Love ya!”), and drove to a cozy little Airbnb in a town two hours away. The kind of place with antique stores, bookshops, and cafés where no one knew or expected anything from me.

Then, I turned off my phone.

I’d given Adrian no warning. No discussion. Just the same courtesy they’d given me when they decided my job was expendable and my time was theirs to commandeer.

When I turned my phone back on three days later, I had 23 missed calls.

Twelve from Adrian. Seven from Yvonne. Four from his sister, probably trying to play mediator.

The texts were even better.

Adrian: Where are you?
Yvonne: This is incredibly selfish of you.
Adrian: Mom is overwhelmed. You should be here.
Yvonne: I thought we were family.
Adrian: Seriously. Call me. What is this about?

I sipped my latte, enjoying the chaos from a safe distance.

Then I replied:

“Oh, I assumed since my job is so meaningless, you’d barely notice if I took a break.”

Silence.

For hours.

Then:

Adrian: Come home.

I walked through the door Friday evening to find my husband looking like he’d been through battle. Yvonne was sitting stiffly on the couch, her perfect bob slightly out of place. There were paint samples and fabric swatches everywhere, a half-eaten takeout container abandoned on the coffee table.

“You could’ve at least told me,” Adrian muttered.

“Did you tell me before deciding my time wasn’t valuable?” I shot back.

Yvonne scoffed. “I just thought—”

“No, you didn’t,” I interrupted. “You assumed I’d drop everything because you wanted something. And Adrian, you backed her up.”

He had the decency to look ashamed. “I didn’t think it was a big deal.”

“And now?” I crossed my arms.

Yvonne sighed, rubbing her temples. “This is a nightmare. Contractors are quoting absurd prices, the flooring guy canceled, and no one will commit to a timeline.”

I let out a mock-sympathetic sigh. “Wow. If only there were professionals who handled this kind of thing for a living.”

Silence.

I turned to Adrian. “I love you, but if you ever undermine my job again, I’ll take a month off next time.”

Message received.

In the following weeks, Yvonne hired an actual contractor. She kept her distance from my schedule, and Adrian? He made damn sure to check himself before making another dismissive comment about my career.

And me?

I started valuing my own time more. That week away made me realize how little I’d been prioritizing myself. So, I booked another trip for next year—this time with full transparency.

Because my job might not save lives, but my sanity? That’s priceless.

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