The pages are stained, the cover is worn, but inside—her handwritten notes, her secret recipes, her legacy.

Last night, my husband’s mother came over. She saw the book and asked if she could borrow it. I smiled and said, “Sorry, but no.”

This morning, I woke up to an empty counter. The book was gone.

I turned to my husband. He wouldn’t meet my eyes.

“I figured you wouldn’t mind,” he said. “She’ll give it back.”

I grabbed my phone and dialed his mother’s number.

She picked up. Before I could speak, she said—

“Oh. I didn’t think you’d find out so soon.”

For a moment, I was stunned into silence. Then, my stomach tightened.

“What do you mean by that?” I asked, gripping the phone so tightly my fingers hurt.

There was a pause. “I just meant… I thought I’d have more time with it before you noticed,” she said, her tone airy, almost dismissive, as if she were talking about borrowing a kitchen towel and not the most precious thing I owned.

“That cookbook is the only thing I have left of my mother,” I said, my voice shaking. “You had no right to take it.”

“Oh, sweetheart, don’t be so dramatic,” she sighed. “It’s just a cookbook. And honestly, you weren’t even using it.”

I clenched my jaw. She wasn’t entirely wrong. I didn’t cook from it often. But that wasn’t the point. It wasn’t about the recipes—it was about my mother’s handwriting, the notes she scribbled in the margins, the little hearts she drew next to my favorite dishes.

“I want it back. Today.”

She chuckled. “Relax. I’ll return it when I’m done copying a few recipes.”

Something about the way she said it sent a chill through me.

“No. You’ll bring it back now.”

She sighed again, as if I was a child throwing a tantrum. “Well, that’s going to be a bit difficult.”

My pulse pounded in my ears. “Why?”

There was a hesitation before she said, “Because I already gave it to my sister.”

I nearly dropped the phone.

“You did what?” I whispered.

“She wanted to see it too,” she said, breezy as ever. “You know how she loves collecting family recipes. I figured, what’s the harm?”

I could barely process what I was hearing.

“The harm,” I said, my voice dangerously low, “is that you stole something irreplaceable from me and handed it off like it was nothing.”

“Oh, stop being so dramatic,” she snapped. “It’s just a cookbook.”

That was the second time she had said that.

I hung up.

I turned to my husband, my hands shaking. “Do you understand what she just told me?”

He ran a hand through his hair. “Babe, look, I get it, but it’s not like she threw it away. She just—”

“She just what?!” I shouted. “She stole from me, passed it around like some library book, and now I don’t even know where it is!”

“She didn’t mean any harm,” he mumbled.

I let out a hollow laugh. “Oh, of course not. She just took something that didn’t belong to her, ignored my refusal, and gave it away without asking. But yeah, no harm done, right?”

He exhaled loudly. “I’ll talk to her. We’ll get it back.”

“You shouldn’t have to ‘talk’ to her. You should’ve told her not to take it in the first place!”

I grabbed my coat and keys. If he wasn’t going to do something about it, I would.

I drove straight to his aunt’s house, barely noticing the speed limits.

She answered the door with a confused smile. “Oh! I wasn’t expecting you.”

“Where’s my cookbook?” I asked, pushing past her into the house.

Her expression shifted. “Oh. Well, your mother-in-law didn’t tell me you’d be coming for it so soon. I haven’t finished—”

“Where is it?” I repeated.

She pursed her lips, then gestured toward the kitchen table.

There it was. My mother’s cookbook.

I rushed to it and picked it up, holding it to my chest like a lost child.

But then my heart sank.

Some of the pages were missing.

My breath caught in my throat. “What did you do?”

She had the audacity to look annoyed. “I only took out a few pages. I wanted to frame the handwritten ones for my own kitchen.”

I could barely see through my anger. “You ripped them out?”

“Well, you weren’t even using it,” she said, echoing her sister’s words.

I turned and walked straight out, gripping what was left of the book in my shaking hands.

By the time I got home, I was done.

My husband was waiting for me in the kitchen. “Did you get it?”

I tossed it onto the counter, and he saw the damage.

His face paled. “Oh… Babe, I—”

I held up a hand. “Don’t. Just don’t.”

I went into our bedroom and closed the door.

That night, I slept alone.

The next morning, my husband came to me, looking serious. “I told my mom and my aunt they need to return the pages.”

I scoffed. “And?”

“They said they’d try to find them, but…” He hesitated. “They don’t know where they are.”

I felt something inside me break. Not just from losing the pages, but from the realization that he had allowed this to happen.

“I’m going to my sister’s for a few days,” I said quietly.

His face fell. “What? Babe, come on—”

“I need space. I need to be around people who respect me.”

He didn’t fight me.

At my sister’s house, I told her everything. She was furious on my behalf.

“You deserve better,” she said.

I knew she was right.

The truth is, this wasn’t about a cookbook. It was about respect. About the people in my life treating me like my feelings mattered.

I went home a week later, and my husband promised things would change. That he would stand up to his mother.

But I had already made my decision.

A year later, I’m in my own apartment, living life on my own terms. The cookbook, what’s left of it, sits on my shelf. Damaged, but still mine.

Just like me.

And if I learned anything from this, it’s this: The people who love you should respect your boundaries. If they don’t, they don’t really love you—they love what they can take from you.

So, don’t let them.

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