I knew something was wrong the moment Gigi walked in that Monday morning.
Usually, she’d burst through the door, grinning from ear to ear, her tiny frame nearly swallowed by her oversized backpack. And, of course, she’d have a brand-new hairstyle to show off, courtesy of her mother’s skillful hands. Some days, it was cornrows shaped into stars; other times, thick braids with colorful beads that clacked together whenever she moved.
But that day, there was no bounce, no bright “Good morning, Miss Raina!” Just a quiet shuffle to her seat, her head slightly lowered, her hands nervously twisting one of her braids.
I followed her gaze and noticed the whispers. The snickers. The not-so-subtle looks exchanged between a few of the other kids. My stomach twisted as I saw one of the boys lean toward her, his smirk mean-spirited.
“Why do you have all that stuff in your hair?”
“It looks like a toy store exploded,” another one added, laughing.
Before I could step in, Gigi shrank in her seat, her fingers gripping her braid even tighter.
“That’s enough,” I said, my voice firm but calm. The boys looked at me, feigning innocence. I turned to Gigi and smiled. “I love your hair today. It’s beautiful.”
She barely looked up. “You don’t have to say that,” she mumbled.
That stung. Not because she had dismissed my words, but because she truly didn’t believe me. The other kids didn’t either—I could see it in their doubtful expressions. Words wouldn’t be enough.
That night, I sat in front of my bathroom mirror, my laptop open beside me, playing a tutorial on how to braid hair. I wasn’t an expert—I’d never even attempted anything beyond a simple ponytail—but I was determined. If Gigi needed proof that her hair was special, I was going to give it to her.
After an hour of struggling, redoing, and nearly giving up, I managed to weave a few braids, tying the ends with beads I had picked up at the beauty store on my way home. They weren’t perfect, but they were there. And they clicked softly when I turned my head.
The next morning, I walked into the classroom with my head held high.
The room went silent.
Gigi’s eyes widened, her mouth slightly open in disbelief. “Miss Raina…” Her voice trembled. “So you weren’t lying? You really like it?”
I knelt beside her. “I love it, Gigi.”
Tears welled in her eyes, and for the first time that week, she smiled.

But the moment didn’t end there.
One of the boys from yesterday, the one who had sneered at her, raised his hand. “Miss Raina… why did you do that to your hair?” His tone wasn’t cruel this time—it was confused.
I smiled, standing up. “Because hair is a way to express who you are. And Gigi’s hair is a part of her, just like yours is a part of you.”
“But… it’s different,” another girl piped up, hesitating. “My mom says hair should be simple.”
“Different isn’t bad,” I said. “Think about it—if everyone here wore the same clothes every single day, wouldn’t that be boring?”
A few heads nodded. One of the girls twirled a strand of her straight hair between her fingers, thinking.
“But why the beads?” the boy asked again.
Before I could answer, Gigi straightened in her seat. “Because they’re beautiful,” she said, her voice suddenly strong. “And because my mama says they tell stories.”
I turned to her, surprised. “Stories?”
Gigi nodded eagerly, some of her shyness melting away. “Yeah! Mama says that a long time ago, in Africa, people used beads to show where they were from or what their family was like. Some people still do it now! My beads are just for fun, but she says they still mean something because they show who I am.”
Silence settled in the room as the kids processed her words. Finally, the same boy who had teased her the day before muttered, “I didn’t know that.”
The rest of the day, something changed. No one touched Gigi’s braids without permission. No one whispered or giggled when she walked by. And when we had our free-draw session that afternoon, more than one child drew pictures of themselves with beaded hair—even the ones who had never worn them before.
But the best moment came at pick-up time.
Gigi’s mother walked in, scanning the room for her daughter. When her eyes landed on me, her brows lifted in surprise. “Oh!” she said, chuckling. “Miss Raina, is that…?”
I smiled. “I wanted to show Gigi that her hair is beautiful.”
Gigi beamed, reaching for her mother’s hand. “See, Mama? Miss Raina loves beads too!”
Her mother’s expression softened, and for a second, I saw something in her eyes—gratitude, maybe even relief.
As they walked out, hand in hand, Gigi turned back to me one last time.
“Miss Raina?”
“Yes, Gigi?”
She grinned. “Tomorrow, I’m wearing even more beads.”
I laughed. “I can’t wait to see them.”
That night, as I unbraided my hair, I thought about how a small gesture had changed something for Gigi. Maybe even for the other kids in my class.
Maybe kindness wasn’t just about words—it was about showing up. About standing beside someone instead of just telling them they weren’t alone.
And maybe, just maybe, we had all learned something that day.
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