Picture this: You’re eight years old, the holiday season is bustling around you with its twinkling lights and joyous songs, and your class is having a Christmas gift exchange. Now, wouldn’t it be peachy if we all miraculously had the latest toys to swap, much to our hearts’ content? Well, sometimes reality’s got a different script, my friends!
Once upon an elementary school time, I found myself in this very scenario. But hereโs a plot twist worthy of a Hallmark movie: My family was dirt poor. I mean, ‘wrapping-a-secondhand-book-in-used-paper’ kind of poor. Yup, thatโs exactly what I didโI wrapped up one of my dadโs old books and hoped for the best.

Fast forward to the gift revelation. Sitting across from me was my classmate, eager as a child on Christmas morning (oh wait, it was!). She handed me the latest Barbieโcue the heavenly chorus. But when she opened my gift and found a dusty old book, tears welled up in her eyes. Now, I didnโt expect to hit the tragedy genre, but there we were.
The day after, enter stage right: her mom, who trundled into our school with a look as stern as a headmistress. I braced myself for impending doom. Instead, she saw me, her face transformed into a warm smile, andโget thisโhanded me a bag overflowing with gifts. Sweet as pumpkin pie, right? There was the Barbieโs matching car, her boyfriend Ken, and a wardrobe of doll outfits so fabulous it could make any fashionista swoon.
But that wasnโt the grand finale. No indeed! She invited me to lunch. At a restaurant. Folks, at this point, I’m practically Cinderella heading to the ball! I was dazzled, speechless, and my feet probably never touched the ground as we walked there.
From this ill-matched stemmed a beautiful friendshipโan evergreen holiday miracle. That teary-eyed classmate and I grew as close as siblings, united by a shared memory and the steadfast kindness of one generous mother. Even now, years later at 24 and living in different towns, weโre still tethered by that experience.
It was during this chance encounter that I first genuinely felt that inexplicable holiday magic, the stuff sugary movies are made of. This moment seared into my consciousness as the quintessential festive generosity.
Lifeโs taken its surprising turns since, and thankfully, Iโm now in a better financial spot. So, naturally, I channel that profound sense of warmth forward each year by stepping into the Santa boots myself. Every holiday season, I find a child in need and ensure that they receive a little sprinkle of holiday enchantmentโsimilar to what was so generously given to me.
Iโd say thatโs what the holidays are all about, wouldnโt you?




