On September 20, 2023, a 31-year-old man shared his recent relationship experience on Reddit and sought advice. He had been dating a 27-year-old woman for about six months. Everything seemed fine until she asked him to meet her family.
A Shocking Discovery
During their visit to her family’s house, a 10-year-old girl opened the door and called the woman “Mom,” surprising the man. It turned out she hadn’t mentioned having a daughter during their time together. Even worse, she hadn’t seen or spoken to her daughter in two months.
Feeling shocked and disheartened, the man couldn’t continue the relationship. In front of her parents, he explained that he couldn’t be with someone who neglected her own child. He packed up her belongings and drove her back to her parents’ place.
Reddit’s Reaction
Redditors overwhelmingly supported the man’s decision. They believed that someone who neglects their child because of a new partner is a major red flag. They understood why he ended the relationship in front of her parents.
Many praised his approach, noting that he waited for the girl to be out of the room before explaining himself. They also commended him for taking her back to her parents and questioned why she kept her child hidden. Redditors firmly supported his decision, acknowledging that her neglect of her child raised concerns about her behavior in a relationship.
While the situation was not ideal, commenters found his attitude acceptable and honest. They believed that the girlfriend orchestrated the interaction and should face the consequences of her actions.
In the end, the Reddit community stood behind the man, assuring him that he made the right decision considering the circumstances.
