When Patrick Dempsey, the charming actor who played Dr. McDreamy, tragically died on Grey’s Anatomy in 2015, fans were devastated. But have you ever wondered why Dempsey decided to leave the hit series that millions adored?
Dempsey’s Hollywood journey began with his role as the nerdy teenager Ronald Miller in the 1987 romantic comedy “Can’t Buy Me Love.” Years later, he captivated fans with his portrayal of the dreamy doctor in Grey’s Anatomy. While rumors of Dempsey’s departure had circulated since 2013, he and co-star Ellen Pompeo signed a new two-year contract in 2014, promising fans more McDreamy until 2016. So, what changed?
Behind the scenes turmoil
While things looked rosy on-screen, behind the scenes, Dempsey was facing turmoil. In a candid interview for the book “How to Save a Life: The Inside Story of Grey’s Anatomy” (2021), Dempsey revealed his resentment towards the demanding schedule of the show. He shared, “It’s 10 months, 15 hours a day. You never know your schedule.” After 11 years of commitment, balancing work and family was taking a toll on him. Despite being well compensated, he felt the need for change.
A personal crisis
The turning point came in early 2015 when Dempsey faced a personal crisis. While participating in a 24-hour race event in Daytona Beach, Florida, his wife at the time, Jillian Fink, unexpectedly filed for divorce after 15 years of marriage. Dempsey, who is also a professional race car driver, realized the potential end of his marriage was “scary.” He made the difficult decision to leave his role as Dr. McDreamy and shift his focus towards repairing his relationship with his wife and being present as a father to their three children.
A love story worth fighting for
Dempsey’s love story with Jillian began in 1994 when he walked into her salon, Delux, where she was not only a stylist but also the owner. Over time, their connection grew, with Dempsey surprising her with visits to the salon. They tied the knot in 1999 in an intimate ceremony at his family’s farmhouse in Maine, surrounded by loved ones.
The 2000s brought both success and challenges for Dempsey and Jillian. While Dempsey revived his career with roles in movies like “Scream 3,” “Made of Honor,” and “Bridget Jones’s Baby,” Jillian thrived as a celebrated makeup artist with a client list that included many Hollywood celebrities. Together, they welcomed their daughter Talula in 2002 and twins Sullivan and Darby in 2007.
Prioritizing love and marriage
Realizing the importance of their bond, Dempsey and Jillian decided to prioritize their marriage and work on their issues. Dempsey reflected, “Everybody has their own path. Our union has to be the priority.” Their determination paid off when they called off the divorce in 2016. Now, as they celebrate their 24th wedding anniversary, their love continues to grow stronger.
Patrick Dempsey’s decision to leave Grey’s Anatomy was motivated by his love for his family and the desire to save his marriage. It’s a sweet love story that reminds us of the importance of prioritizing the people we cherish. Let us know what you think about Dempsey’s decision!
