Seeing the World Through a Child’s Eyes
The father in the following story had a humbling experience that taught him an important lesson about prejudice. While it may not be flattering, it is something we can all relate to. Let’s take a moment to see the world through the eyes of a child.
Blanton O’Neal and his 11-year-old son, Sean, encountered a situation that anyone could easily misinterpret. What happened next was a powerful lesson for both father and son. Blanton shared the events of their day on Facebook:
“I debated sharing this story because it doesn’t paint a flattering picture of me. But I believe it reflects the thoughts many of us have if we’re truly honest with ourselves. Yesterday, as Sean and I traveled to North Carolina for his soccer tournament, we stopped at a small gas station near the N.C./S.C. border. While I went inside to pay, I gave Sean the keys to wait in the car. When I came out, I saw Sean walking towards a man in a wheelchair. My initial reaction was, ‘He must be asking Sean for money.’ But as I got closer, I realized Sean had a short conversation with the man and was returning to the car. So I did the same.”
Blanton was taken aback by the encounter and asked Sean what had happened. Sean simply replied, “Nothing Dad. I just asked if he needed help. He said no thanks but thanked me for asking.”
It turns out that Sean noticed the gentleman, an older African American with amputated legs, attempting to cross a gravel parking lot full of potholes in his wheelchair. Sean, without hesitation, got out of the car and offered to help.
Feeling inspired by his son’s kindness, Blanton pulled up beside the man and asked if he could use some money. The man declined, saying, “No thank you, I’m fine. Your son was a real gentleman and gave me all I needed today. God bless.” With a wave and a smile, Sean and his father drove off.
Rediscovering Our Kindness
Blanton’s story serves as a reminder of the negativity and judgment that permeates our world. We constantly spew anger and hatred on social media and in the news. It’s not a political issue; it affects us all. We have forgotten what it means to see the world through the eyes of a child.
Over the years, many people have praised Sean for his big-heartedness. While his small acts of kindness often go unnoticed, that is how it should be. Sean wasn’t seeking praise or recognition when he decided to help the man. He simply saw someone in need and took action.
Changing the World, One Smile at a Time
Imagine if each of us could make just one person smile every day, whether it’s a stranger, a friend, or a family member. By doing so, we have the power to create a better world. Blanton’s story reminds us why it’s vital not to judge others based on first impressions. No one can be defined solely by their appearance or clothing.
Children have a unique ability to see beyond the surface and recognize the person within. As adults, we have lost that perspective and often judge too hastily. Let Sean’s example of kindness inspire us all to do something nice for a stranger today.
Let’s share this story and come together to make our world a better place.
